MELISSA (Lemon balm) - is abundant in my garden, here's how I use it ...
- Maddie

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Lemon balm — often called Melissa from its botanical name Melissa officinalis — is one of the oldest traditional European healing herbs. It belongs to the mint family, though its fragrance is softer and more lemony than mint.
The name Melissa comes from the Greek word for “honeybee,” because bees absolutely adore its flowers.
One important note, that I found out through experience: lemon balm spreads enthusiastically in gardens. Every year there’s rather more Melissa than I expect. If you have it in your garden, fresh tea is one of the nicest ways to enjoy it, so I don’t mind a bumper harvest!
Historically it was grown in monastery gardens throughout Europe and used for:
· calming the nerves
· lifting low spirits
· aiding digestion
· easing headaches
· supporting sleep
· comforting the heart during grief or emotional strain
In traditional herbalism, lemon balm is considered a gentle “uplifting relaxant” — calming without being heavily sedating.
Modern herbal research and traditional use both suggest it may help support:
· Nervous system
· stress and tension
· anxious feelings
· restlessness
· mental fatigue
· mild sleep difficulties
· Digestion
· bloating
· nervous stomach
· indigestion
· digestive spasms
· Cognitive support
· Some studies suggest lemon balm may support focus calm concentration, and memory when stress is involved.
Immune and antiviral support
Traditionally used for colds and viral infections, especially externally for cold sores.
Energetically
Many energy-based traditions view lemon balm as:
· heart-opening
· emotionally soothing
· gently brightening
· cooling for overheated emotions
· It has a lovely “softening” quality emotionally and energetically.
Making a simple lemon balm tea
Fresh leaves are especially beautiful because the lemon scent is strongest when newly picked. I’ll pick mine in the early morning.
Fresh leaf infusion
Use:
1 generous handful fresh leaves
1 mug just-off-boiling water
Method:
Bruise or lightly crush the leaves…. But not too much
Pour over hot water.
Cover while steeping (important to keep the aromatic oils in).
Infuse 10–15 minutes.
Strain and drink OR I do make mine in a Moroccan teapot and leave the leaves in there and keep topping up with hot water. There's an art to making and pouring such herbal teas, take your time, if you can make them in a teapot and pour from a great height, it areates the tea and lessens any 'bitterness'.
The flavour is gentle, lemony, green, and slightly sweet.
You can add honey or organic sugar and also get curious and explore mixing with other herbs ….. as I’m typing this I’m drinking Melissa from my garden with a level teaspoon of organic Rose Water (added after tea has steeped). When my roses bloom I’ll use fresh petals.

Other Herbs that combine beautifully with lemon balm
Lemon balm is wonderfully sociable in tea blends. It harmonizes rather than dominates.
Lemon balm + lavender
Lavender adds:
floral calm
deeper relaxation
aromatic richness
Use lavender lightly because too much can taste soapy.
A lovely ratio is:
3 parts lemon balm
1 part lavender buds
Excellent evening tea.
Lemon balm + rose (that I’m drinking at the moment)
Rose and lemon balm are a classic heart-soothing combination.
Rose water can work, but use it sparingly:
just a few drops in a cooled or warm tea
too much can overpower the delicate herb
Even better:
· dried rose petals
· fresh rose petals (unsprayed)
Rose brings:
· emotional comfort
· gentle sweetness
· cooling energy
· heart-centred qualities
A lovely blend:
· lemon balm
· rose petals
· tiny touch lavender
This becomes a deeply calming “heart tea.”
Summer Garden Tea
lemon balm
peppermint
rose petals
Lovely iced as well.
Other lovely combinations
Lemon balm + peppermint
Good for:
digestion
mental clarity
afternoon refreshment
Bright and lively.
Lemon balm + chamomile
Chamomile tea
Wonderful before bed. Gentle, comforting, soothing to the stomach and ne
Very good during stressful periods.
Lemon balm + nettle
Nettle tea
More nourishing and mineral-rich.
Good spring tonic combination.
Lemon balm + ginger
Ginger tea
Lovely when digestion feels sluggish or when someone feels chilled and tense.
Fresh vs dried lemon balm
Fresh lemon balm:
· brighter
· greener
· more citrusy
· more uplifting
Dried lemon balm:
· softer
· mellower
· more relaxing
Melissa dries very well, though it is one of those herbs whose delicate lemon fragrance can fade if it is dried too hot or too slowly.
The secret is:
· harvest at the right moment
· dry it fairly quickly
· keep it out of direct sunlight
Then you can enjoy surprisingly fragrant Melissa all winter.
Best time to harvest
The best time is:
· on a dry morning
· after the dew has evaporated
· before the plant flowers fully
This is when the aromatic oils are strongest.
If the plant has already flowered, it is still usable, but the flavour is often a little less vibrant.
Which parts to pick
Harvest:
· the leafy upper stems
· soft young growth
· healthy leaves
Avoid:
· yellowing leaves
· coarse woody stems
· damaged foliage
You can cut quite generously because lemon balm regrows enthusiastically.
A good rule:
never remove more than about
one-third to one-half of the plant at once.
How to harvest
Use:
· scissors
· garden snips
· or a sharp knife
Cut stems around:
· 4–8 inches long
· Gather them gently into loose handfuls.
Try not to crush the leaves too much, as bruising releases the precious aromatic oils.
Preparing for drying
Do not wash unless truly necessary.
If clean:
· simply shake gently for insects or dust
· If you must rinse:
· rinse quickly
· pat dry thoroughly
· allow surface moisture to evaporate before hanging
Too much moisture encourages mould.
Hanging to dry
Step-by-step
1. Make small bundles
Tie together:
5–10 stems per bundle
Small bundles dry better than large dense ones.
Use:
string/twine
elastic bands work beautifully because stems shrink as they dry.
2. Hang upside down
Hang bundles:
upside down
somewhere warm, dry, airy, and shaded
Ideal places:
· spare room
· airing cupboard with ventilation
· covered porch
· utility room
· dry kitchen corner
Avoid:
· direct sun
· damp rooms
· steamy kitchens
· Sunlight reduces both colour and medicinal quality.

3. Ensure airflow
Good airflow matters enormously.
If the air is still and damp, herbs can mildew instead of drying.
Space bundles apart slightly.
How long does it take?
Usually:
5–14 days
depending on:
humidity
room warmth
bundle size
Melissa is dry when:
· leaves feel crisp
· stems snap cleanly rather than bend
Removing and storing
Once dry:
Strip the leaves
Gently run fingers down stems into a bowl.
You can keep some tiny flowering tops too.
Discard thick stems.
Store properly
Best containers:
· dark glass jars
· amber jars
· tins
· ceramic containers
Keep away from:
· sunlight
· heat
· moisture
Label with:
· herb name
· harvest date
Shelf life
For best flavour and vitality:
use within 1 year
Though it may still be usable longer, the lemon fragrance gradually softens.
Many herbalists harvest fresh each summer for the strongest medicine and flavour.
A lovely traditional tip
Some herbalists place a clean paper bag loosely over hanging bundles while drying.
Benefits:
· protects from dust
· catches falling leaves
· slows light exposure
· Just leave openings for airflow.

Freezing option
[hands up, I haven't done this BUT I'm going to try it this Summer.]
Because Melissa loses some aroma during drying, frozen lemon balm often tastes brighter than dried in winter teas.
You can:
· chop leaves into ice cube trays with water
· freeze whole leaves in bags
I hope this inspires you to get curious, forage and create some delicious infusions.
Maddie
xxx
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